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PictureIcelandic cafe decor. These are color coordinated books that look cool, but the books have been cut away about 3 inches from the spine so that they can be displayed. The bookshelves don't need to be full sized this way, but the books are unreadable.

2026~24. Forgiveness

7/12/2026

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PictureMark Sakamoto. 2014.
One of the things like I love about is project is coming to a book with absolutely no expectations of what is to come.  At first, I did not realize this was a memoir at all and I didn't realize until I had finished it that it had been out for more than a decade before I read it.  The early part of the book in particular was written like my favorite type of intergenerational novel, where we look at family history and weave a story together from there.  Here, the author develops the story of the two sides of his family during WWII--this Japanese grandparents who are removed from Vancouver and sent to Alberta, losing everything they worked for and built during their time in BC and his Scottish grandfather who, at the same time, was fighting for Canada in Japan and who was ultimately a prisoner of war there.  This part of the book is excellent.  I particularly love how he does not shy away from the horrors of the Canadian government, not just in how they treated Japanese-Canadians and Canadians born to Japanese immigrants in Canada, but also in how they made decisions about young white Canadians fighting in the war.  It was a juxtaposition that we do not often see setup like this and I found it captivating.  

There are times in the book where I felt like a stronger editor could have been more aggressive with the delete key as the story slowed to more genealogical narration than storytelling for a bit, but just after I started to lose interest and couldn't track the minor characters being mentioned, the story jumped to the story of his own parents and his childhood, which was very different that the earlier part of the book. Here, the loss of his mother to addiction was painful in its descriptions of how that impacts a child and a family.  His struggle in his relationship with her could have benefitted from more forgiveness of his younger self and less blame for choices he made in those terrible circumstances when he was still quite young.  My heart ached to remind him that none of that was his fault and it wasn't his job to take care of her when she was drinking. For a book about forgiveness, I wished it had more of that theme in there.

The theme of forgiveness, though, is well played here as the grandchild of very different set of grandparents who were able to look beyond the racial conflict that ruined their young adult lives by a government that expelled them or sent them to war.  At the end of the book, the commentary on how you can hate what happened and wish it hadn't while at the same time understanding that the author is who is because of those decisions is reflected on at a time when he is working in government and finds himself in the very room where earlier prime ministers and advisors made the very decisions that led to those horrors with what appeared to be very little regard for the impact on his grandparents and the generations that followed.  

I am having a difficult time deciding if I recommend it or not, but only because of that one section that was just kind of boring. All in all, I think it is worth reading--when you get to that part, maybe just skim it or speed it up.

​Recommend.

PS. I am marking it as a war novel, even though it isn't, but this is because it is written about war in a way that feels like a novel, so folks that enjoy those stories are going to appreciate those parts, I think.

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2026~14. Fever In The Heartland

3/16/2026

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PictureTimothy Egan. 2023.
I wasn't sure what to make of this book when I started it.  The first half of the book is a fairly dry history of the KKK in the mid-west in the 1920's. The subtitle of the book is The Ku Klux Klan's Plot to Take Over America, and the Woman Who Stopped Them, so I kept waiting for the woman who stopped them to show up in the story.  She definitely did not show up the way I was expecting. 

I think we all know that there is a correlation between men who join the KKK and men who rape and assault women, but this book is a brutal account of that part of their history. We don't talk enough about this connection. This book explores that and focuses on  an unusual court trial.

Well worth the read.

Recommend.

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2026~8. A Woman of No Importance

3/1/2026

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PictureSonia Purnell. 2019.
Once in a while a new biography is released about someone I know nothing about that tells the story of a part of history that I don't know anything about that just blows me away. This WWII spy story was published in 2019, but I didn't hear about it until this year and I really want everyone to read it. I have been sharing this story with lots of people because it is inspiring and so unknown.

Virginia Hall was an American woman living in France before and after it was occupied by the Nazi regime and she developed a shockingly effective network of spies and intelligent agents. The sexism was blatant and adding to that was the discrimination she experienced as an amputee. Her network included sex workers and nuns, farmers and shopkeepers, locals and immigrants, and the everyone underestimated her, if they even noticed her. She used this to her advantage in the most clever ways. She was committed to fighting fascism from the inside and she was a brilliant strategist.  I was inspired by her willingness to stay and return even when she after her cover was compromised -- going so far as to have her teeth filed so she would look different. That she managed to hide in plain sight, even with her disability reflects both her braveness and the discrimination all around her.

This is a profile in anti-fascist courage that is a must read, especially in an era where examples of bravery should be celebrated.  Read it!

Highly recommend.

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2025~X7. The City of Falling Angels

9/13/2025

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PictureJohn Berendt. 2005.
​By the author of Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, this is a captivating read about Venice, particularly in the context of the fire that destroyed La Fenice Opera House in the late 1990s.  While to a large extent focused on who started the fire and why, this book branches out from the main storyline in interesting ways, painting a detailed portrait of a unique city. Filled with politics, culture, history, and, of course, an unsolved mystery, I loved not only the exquisite writing, but the interviews and depicts of people.  Instead of being a distraction, the side stories were just as interesting as the main fire plot.

Highly recommend.

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2025~44. The Argonauts

9/8/2025

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PictureMaggie Nelson. 2015.
Written in 2015, I couldn't remember if I had read this years ago when it was released or if I had just heard about it and read excerpts, so I dug in and read it in its entirety and it holds up.  In fact, almost all of the main topics covered in this book about living beyond the gender binary and heteronormativity to which our systemic structures are beholden could have been written today.  These topics were not new in 2015, but this book was written at a time when the emerging, radical ideas from the era that preceded it had been academicalized and solidified with enduring language and a coherent world view that has stuck. 

This memoir is steeped in Queer theory and is well worth a read.

Recommend.

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2025~43. The Art Thief

9/7/2025

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PictureMichael Finkel. 2023.
Who needs an historicalized fictional novel when there are real life stories like this one?  This non-fiction book about the world's most prolific art thief, Stéphane Breitwieser, would not be believable if it were presented as a novel.

​At the end of the book, there is a short description of the research done to gather the facts for the story, but I left wanting more information about the author and how he managed to amass all of the details he included in the book because it is a fascinating read.  The thefts happened all of Europe, in plain sight of other visitors and guards, in all kinds of museums over the course of a few years in the late 1990's and early 2000's. 

I also left wishing there was more to say about the psychology of not only the main thief, but of his girlfriend and mother, both of whom had behaviors relating to the crimes that left me perplexed.  All told the art was likely worth more than a billion dollars and Breitwieser was an entirely self-taught art historian and aficionado.  The writing was solid enough, though it is definitely written as non-fiction, but the story itself is such that it carries the writing, which is almost certainly due to the research and interviews that went into the process. This even included the author being present when Breitwieser stole things.

Recommend.

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2025~33. People Love Dead Jews

7/12/2025

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PictureDara Horn. 2021.
It will come as no surprise that this is not a light read, but this reflection on antisemitism is both interesting and informative. I particularly appreciated how it is gives context to some of the commentary that I commonly hear from Jewish friends and read by Jewish authors. One thing that stood out to me in particular is the way in which many  progressive Pro-Palestine movements' boycotts of Israeli companies is perceived as antisemitic even as many leaders of those boycotts reiterate that they distinguish between the State of Israel and Jewish people.  The explanation in this book is really compelling and also reminds us how close in time we are to the time before the Holocaust when Germans were encouraged not to buy from Jewish stores. Her writing is both so well researched and so emotionally compelling that I found myself leaving each section with more compassion for and understanding of why somethings are perceived as antisemitic even when non-Jews might resist that description. 

It took me a while to finish this book, so was reading it about six weeks ago when the lethal bombing attack at the protest in Boulder occurred and I was impressed by how it shifted how much it impacted how I thought about the aftermath of that incident.  The core idea in the book that hate crimes against Jews are only given attention to the extent that the narrative can be used for a purpose that distracts from the horror of antisemitic violence to the benefit of others played out in real time as I was watching.  Almost as soon as the news broke, the immigrant accused of the bombing was arrested and charged, but rather than using the moment to focus on hate crimes and violence, the federal government arrested and deported his  wife and children, bypassing due process, thus shifting the focus from his Jewish victims and instead to using the event for political gain just in exactly the manner the book describes.  You have to love when a book provides such relevant insight and analysis even it was published a few years ago.

Recommend.

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2025~20. Eager

5/5/2025

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PictureBen Goldfarb. 2018.
This is a quirky micro-history-science book about beavers that I did not anticipate I was going to like, but ended up being sneakily interesting and entertaining.  Who knew that a well-written book about a strangely unique creature could be just the right amount of not-political and not-depressing to make my list of recommendations?
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2025~17. Our National Parks

4/15/2025

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PictureJohn Muir. 1901.
This was the perfect book to fall asleep listening to. It wasn't so much that it was boring, as that the cadence of the narration is very soothing.  The author employs a writing technique in which he makes long lists of things, often the latin names for plants or animals, that might interest the hardcore biologist and botanist enthusiasts, but I found lulled me to sleep, like a lullaby.  In fact, I would listen to the same chapter several nights in a row, having not made it to the end of even one chapter before I drifted off to sleep.  I would like to say that the book was light and pleasant, as he describes at length the natural spaces that he is so drawn to--and there is something compelling about how much he loves these spaces and wants to make sure they are preserved--and yet the racism of 1901 finds its way into a world it has no business being.  This is in addition to the complete exclusion of women from the narrative in any meaningful way.  All said, I just can't recommend it.

​Not recommended.

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2025~6. An Unfinished Love Story

2/9/2025

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The title of this book was really misleading, although the photos on the cover might have given me a hint that it wasn't going to be a romance novel.  A memoir written by a well-known presidential historian, the center of the memoir is her husband, who was a speech writer for JFK, Lyndon B Johnson, and Bobby Kennedy.  The audio version includes audio clips from some of the speeches she talks about. Perhaps the title refers to the triumph of love over hate in the American political landscape or to the love that they had for the country, because romantic love was not at the center of the story, at least not until the very end when they are working together on this project.  I wish the book had told us more about their interpersonal dynamics, a 1960's power couple at a time when two careers and children was uncommon, probably especially so in the highly charged DC world.  I would have been really interested to have had that explored more.

As a history of the Democratic party, it was a detailed historians account--at times deeply interesting and at times fairly mundane and boring.  What I liked the most, though, was the reminder that this moment in time, when it feels like the country has reached the end of its capacity to endure the political divides that it is based on, is not unique.  It is not even the moment in time in which the demise of the country appears the most imminent.  Hearing the first hand account of the turmoil, of the violence, of the divisions in the country, especially during the five year span of time in which MLK and the Kennedy brothers were assassinated, provided some solace for me, knowing that the country has been here before and has returned from the brink of implosion many times, that it is still possible that it could right itself.  

I don't know that I have ever heard or read many of the speeches from that era, but they were not only actually inspiring, but still relevant.  It is hard to remember sometimes how far we have come and that this was accomplished not only with protests in the streets and with education in classrooms, but also with leaders in the system with a vision and willingness to show up to do the hard work of leadership.

The hesitation that I have in making a recommendation on this one is just that there really were sections that were dull, including a few that I fell asleep to multiple times before finally just skipping, something I rarely do.

Recommended, but a soft recommend.  

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